Martha's Country Bakery
Williamsburg, Astoria, Forrest Hills, Bayside
What Martha's lacks in "cool factor" and "romanticism" it more than makes up for with a ridiculous selection of desserts. Also don't sleep on the fact that it's open until midnight or one every single day. Don't ask me why Forrest Hills needs a bakery open that late, but hey why not? Go here because even if your date goes sour, you'll end up with something sweet.
Drink
All manner of coffee drinks - keep it simple for go for a Frozen Peanut Butter Hot Chocolate.
Eat
Zerts, zerts, zerts. Martha's slings cakes, cupcakes, cookies, gelato and more. Their selection is huge.
Sit
Table seating. Most of the locations are pretty huge so their should never really be a wait.